Co-parenting with Friends

Let’s normalize co-parenting with friends.

For the longest time, I struggled to trust others enough to let them play a role in raising my children. This hesitancy extended even to people I was dating, regardless of whether they were the other parent. It wasn’t because I thought I knew better, had more rights, or was more qualified. Quite simply, I trusted myself to be the most present, consistent, and reliable figure in my children’s lives, no matter the circumstances.

But as time has passed and my family has grown, I’ve come to a profound realization: it’s not that I couldn’t do this alone—I just didn’t need to.

I’ve learned that it’s possible to have everything under control while also leaning on others. There’s incredible value in raising your children alongside friends who are navigating the same journey with their own kids.

When you co-parent with friends, you gain time, companionship, and support, while your children gain friendship, playmates, and endless opportunities for fun. It’s a win-win. You get a much-needed break, and your kids get the joy of connection and entertainment when you need to recharge.

You don’t need a romantic partner to share the responsibility of raising your children. That’s what friends are for—no judgment, no hassle, just a whole lot of love, laughter, and support along the way.